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Creating Your Destiny – Emerging From Your Wilderness

Emerging from the Wilderness: It’s Time to Rise!

 Affirmation: I am slamming the door on the past: Self-sabotage does not live here anymore! Regret, shame and defeat have now left the building! Sorry you life destroyers, the door is locked and you can NEVER enter my life again!!

Oh, those tough times in the wilderness when we feel like we are either stuck or roaming in the desert, rough country, backwoods or out in the boondocks (take your pick). Let’s now focus on really, truly taking off and rising higher by implementing laser focus on your true life’s purpose. This includes working on how to eliminate the things that need to go in order to make more room for new life, to empower your purpose, accelerate, shift! My goal for you is to first of all understand your life’s purpose in order to start achieving it. To discern what is and is not necessary to capture your dream. To live a “focused” life—make efficient goals—do meaningful activities that fill us with the power and energy to achieve real success. To align with God so He will redeem our time of lost years, finances and opportunities.

            What is your definition of success (not the world’s definition but yours)                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

            There is an appointed destiny for each of us. We have God’s DNA, (Divine Nature & Attributes) and in it is the foundation, the building blocks of our lives, bodies, and who we really are.

            Understanding our life’s purpose is the start of achieving it. Discern what is/is not part of that so you can consistently pursue efficient goals and do meaningful activities that fill you with the power and energy to achieve success. Align with God and He will redeem our time of lost years and dashed hopes. His purpose empowers us, not drains us. People rise higher when they know their purpose in life and how to eliminate the things necessary to make more room to manifest your purpose, accelerate and shift you higher.

Is it time to push the Reset button and move out of the wilderness? Your Destination: New life, adventures, relationships, health, finances and career! Possibly it is leaving a familiar nest that has become too uncomfortable, clearing your path, creating new recipes for life and reaching your oasis.

  We not only need to earn a living while here on earth—we are here to create a life!

Stay tuned for more steps from Creating Your Destiny: Power Steps for Mind – Body


Creating Your Destiny – Realignment

Realignment in life—spirit, soul and body–can often be compared to realigning a car: examining why the car keeps wandering off the path, wearing down part of the tire unevenly (think of your own spirit, soul or body), where a person, place or thing is taking up too much time or energy, lessening your opportunities and feelings of value. It takes some twists and turns to reset the wheels of life just like it does when our vehicles need new parts and adjustments to keep running smoothly. Ouch, those can be uncomfortable, but oh so nice when a smooth ride returns and the tires of life are evenly balanced with no worn spots: (overly stressed, exhausted, sad or angry). Is it time to get life back on track?

                        It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.  Anthony Robbins

So, what are you speaking about yourself and your life? Speak what God says about you, not what people and situations have said. You are His child! You are awesome! You are equipped with everything you need for success!

                      No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.  Eleanor Roosevelt

Remember what you focus on you empower—you become! We will focus on how to arrive at your beautiful destination. As you focus on the new, you will be amazed how the old habits fade farther back until one day—they are gone!

The following pages will provide you with the ability to integrate necessary elements for revival, restoration, release and rebuilding. You are a magnificent creation. Here we go! Stay tuned for more steps from Creating Your Destiny: Power Steps for Mind – Body

Creating Your Destiny – Power Steps

        You are a warrior! Yes you! Is it time for radical reinvention? Have you ever felt like life is a merry-go-round and you just want to get off? In this book you will explore the steps to seizing your dreams from the back of the shelf, assessing where you are versus where you want to be and a multitude of steps to take to get there. It is definitely time for the manifestation of your dreams and achievements.

  • Are you going through an energy-sapping or frustrating time with relationships, career, or life itself?  Are you feeling like you’re in a cocoon and wanting to burst out?  Learn how to gain new strength and momentum, try new and fulfilling life-transforming experiences and reach your personal and professional calling. 
  • Would you like to identify how to enhance your internal GPS to feel truly good about yourself, eliminate the negative tapes and excitedly work through the exercises that follow to get you there?
  • Are you or a loved one interested in learning productive and effective steps to push off from a restraining landing strip you may currently be on and launch into your long awaited, Divine destiny? The one that seemed too far out of reach.
  • If you are looking to gain insight into how to recreate an “awesome woman” resume that will draw people to you, then keep reading!
  • If you are you eager to equip yourself with new tools and techniques to enable you to write a victorious new chapter in your book of life, you will want to read on!

             Every August you hear on television over and again “Are you ready for some football?” Well, let me ask you, are you ready for winning at your own game of life? Yes, that’s what I’m talking about! Remember high school football cheers like “Lean to the left, lean to the right. Stand up, sit down, fight…fight…fight! Well, forget about leaning in all the unfulfilling directions and instead…Stand up and fight for your Divine place in this world. Practice the life-transforming steps in this book and make your goal a reality now.

            Discover your power steps to spirit, soul and body breakthrough: revive, restore, rebuild and release. Come to the fruition of your destiny – seeing beyond the puzzle pieces of how your life’s picture appears presently—in a place you do not wish to be. You have the power to complete the entire picture—to methodically tear out ill-fitting sections and carefully replace them with healthy and life-enhancing pieces until it is beautifully finished. You are the co-architect with our Creator, a child of the most high God. You are royalty in your own right, not someone begging bread (love, acceptance, approval or material needs) on the outside of the castle…but worthy of your very own royal crown.  

            You will no longer wonder, “Why in the world am I here? What is my purpose in this life? That’s not where I was headed!” Then you will rejoice in how that exasperating step was exactly the one that launched you to where you really were meant to be.  Difficult steps are often required to prepare you with the experiences, education or to the connections that will launch you higher.

Stay tuned for part two from Creating Your Destiny: Power Steps for Mind – Body

Rise & Soar – back to your destiny!!


Watch this encouraging video now! If you have dreams that were put on the shelf a long time ago but the thoughts keep coming back to you, it’s time to pull them off the shelf, exam your heart and what is happening in your life right now, and make you plans to get back in the race. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!

5-Star Review: Amazon Review – Hope at the End of Your Rope

on October 12, 2017 – Liberty Beacon and The Truth Will Set You Free!
The author, Rita Rocker has done a phenomenal job in writing “Hope at the End of Your Rope”. I found myself feeling extra gentle and filled with serious gratitude towards life. What she shares is so memorable and uplifting. She writes from her heart and spirit hoping her readers walk away refreshed and renewed. I believe even the happiest people in the world would appreciate this book because it confirms life’s journey. I really enjoyed this book because Rita Rocker suffered into greatness which is the spiritual journey of everyone with purpose. Well done faithful servant.

My AMAZON book review!

Customer Review

on October 12, 2017

The author, Rita Rocker has done a phenomenal job in writing “Hope at the End of Your Rope”. I found myself feeling extra gentle and filled with serious gratitude towards life. What she shares is so memorable and uplifting. She writes from her heart and spirit hoping her readers walk away refreshed and renewed. I believe even the happiest people in the world would appreciate this book because it confirms life’s journey. I really enjoyed this book because Rita Rocker suffered into greatness which is the spiritual journey of everyone with purpose. Well done faithful servant.AMA

Perception is Everything–It’s Our Reality!

PERCEPTION can make or break relationships. It is how we see ourselves and how we believe others see us. It is also how we perceive (see, judge, interpret) others. The perception of an individual is his or her reality. People act on the basis of their perceptions of you (nasty, cooperative, sloppy, friendly, engaging, and helpful, etc). If you change their perceptions, you change the way they think and feel about you, and you change the things that they will do for you. Here are key areas that influence our lives in a very significant way:

POLITENESS IS POWER: Treat People Politely  (positive energy). People do things for 2 reasons– either they want to or have to. Treating them with kindness, courtesy and respect makes them want to do things for you–they are motivated to go out of their way to help you solve your problems and accomplish your goals. Being nice satisfies one of the deepest of all subconscious needs, the need to feel important and respected. Whenever you convey this to another person in your conversation, your attitude and your treatment of that person, he or she will be wide open to being persuaded and influenced by you in almost anything you need.

PERSONAL POWER: The more power and influence that a person perceives that you have, whether real or not, the more likely it is that that person will be persuaded by you to do beneficial things –you have branded yourself as an authority or someone who is good to do business with. Example, if you appear to be a senior executive, or a wealthy person, people will be much more likely to help you and serve you than they would be if you were perceived as uncaring, insecure, too temperamental, etc.

POSITIONING:  Shape Their Thinking About You. The way other people think about you and talk about you when you are not there. Your positioning in the mind and heart of other people largely determines how open they are to being influenced by you. Again, YOU are the #1 brand in your business. Everything you do shapes & influences their perceptions of you and your positioning in their minds. Is there something you could say or do to encourage people to be more open to your requests and help you achieve your goals? (thoughtful, team player, keep your word, polite, professional).

PERFORMANCE:  Be Good At What You Do. This refers to your level of competence and expertise in your area. A person who is highly respected for his or her ability to get results is far more persuasive and influential than a person who only does an average job. Commit To Excellence:  The perception that people have of your performance capabilities exerts an inordinate influence on how they think and feel about you. Commit yourself to being the very best in your field. Sometimes, a reputation for being excellent at what you do can be so powerful that it alone can make you an extremely persuasive individual in all of your interactions with the people around you. They will accept your advice, be open to your influence and agree with your requests.

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Restructuring Life and Recreating a Movement

Don’t deny yourself, develop yourself.

Hope: restructuring life and recreating a movement. Rising to your appointed place. .. with the eagles that soar above the storm!! That may take clearing your path of detrimental relationships, hurtful tapes that may have played through your mind most of your life.

Think of your mind as a computer and work diligently to program it for the most positive and effective transformation. Just like a computer, if you load the wrong software into it, it will not function correctly and may cause a hardware crash which can cause tremendous aggravation to restore and rebuild before getting back on the right track. Just like when a computer gets a virus and needs to be cleaned up, we often need to remove the negative “viruses” in our lives. They run the gamut from negative and demeaning relationships, bad health habits that tear us down, careless spending that can put us in a sea of debt, and just plain filling up our mind’s computer with trash.  When our thoughts become infected, we either clean them up, hit the gas and go forward in victory mode, or clog up our system and sit by the side of the road. It is your choice. Is it time to replace your mental engine?

    When you go through life’s transitions, keep focused on the bigger picture. Design it in your mind no matter what is actually currently in your life. Walt Disney created the entire Magic Kingdom in his mind before he had the money, support, anyone’s respect and cooperation, or the very equipment that he needed to actually make it happen. He grew up as a poor workhorse on the family farm with an abusive father who made him and his brother work from before dawn to late at night, every moment they were not in school. They would freeze in the winter with holes in their one pair of shoes. His trials and loss of a true childhood is what gave him the drive to create an enchanted place for all of us to dream, have unbelievable fun, and experience life like never before! If Walt Disney could rise from the ashes and do something so profound and miraculous, think of what you can do with the magic pen we call “the mind. Unlock your inner architect. Reprogram Your Mind. The one who has the most power to change your life is the one you see in your mirror!”

See a wall of fear? Shift! Move forward. Run into another wall—unsupportive people? Shift. Move forward. Think of changing the atmosphere as you go–new people, places, things, opportunities, jobs. Not everyone currently in your life can go forward with you. Lay down your hesitations. You are a warrior, a phoenix who has risen. Now soar! This is your moment…step past your intimidations, your fears. You were never meant to be desolate, afflicted or not achieving your highest purpose. Fight for it!

“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog”.   Mark Twain